Haters are always ugly, because they train their brain to recognize beauty as unsafe.

When you repeatedly allow your self to have a negative reaction towards beauty or objects of desire, you repeatedly tell your self that beauty and objects of desire are bad.

The brain understands that if it were to become beautiful or access those objects of desire, it would be under threat. Therefore, the brain will protect itself by staying away from becoming beautiful or accessing the obejcts of desire.

However, if the hater would practice regurlarly the exercice of celebrating beauty and objects of desire when they see them, then the hater would teach its brain that beauty and objects of desire are safe. Now the brain can let the hater be beautiful and have the objects of desire, because now the brain knows that beauty is safe and that it would even allow the hater to celebrate with people.

Until the hater learns how to practice joy, the hater will remain ugly.

Elle Mealone, 2026.